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Tolerance according to Microsoft Word synonym list is open-mindness, patience, easiness or acceptance which bring a very big definition of being tolerance.
Understanding that not every people at the same level of yours and have the patience to wait for them are being tolerance.
Considering other people do offend to some behaviors and feel ease to accept their nature is being tolerance.
Most people always make mistake and misunderstood the different between being honest and not tolerance.
Being honest is telling the things that truly and always be there but less people acknowledge the thing is there with considering other people reaction to the statement that being made and use proper way.
Being not tolerance is telling the truth but with the intention to hurt other and in such rude way.
As we can see, there are just thin white line on the white earth between being honest and not tolerance.
People also misunderstood being hypocrite and being tolerance.
Being hypocrite is to cover up your own dark side and creating a new with attention to get something but never willing to be that betters you.
Being tolerance is to cover up your own dark side with attention to got something but willing to change and will change to that better you.
Now, why I’m telling all of you about all this rubbish? This is because people always misunderstood what being tolerance and being hypocrite. The misconception sometimes crumble the belief in one person to other person cause they think that all people just being hypocrite.
And like we can see, the thin white line appears again between hypocrite and tolerance but the thin white line make the biggest different ever in human concept of believe.
People always said, just being you but will yourself being so good? Imitating the good behavior so that you can fully adapt with it is a good try to change your behavior.
Will you show your dark side even you know the dark side will make people hate you?
Will you proudly said that I could spit over 3 wheat fields without offending other people?
Could you proudly said that you’re addicted to porn and masturbate constantly and sure no people will look at you and wonder in their mind what kind of sex maniac you are? Will you?
So, when people said just be yourself, this kind of people actually mean that you must be a hypocrite and never being tolerance.
My advice: just be yourself with considering others.
Source: somewhere in the net.
Footnote: Am I a tolerance type or hypocrite type?