Monday, May 12, 2008

Foolproof

Foolproof by definition:
  • goofproof: proof against human misuse or error; "foolproof this appliance"
  • not liable to failure; "a foolproof identification system"; "the unfailing sign of an amateur"; "an unfailing test"
    wordnet.princeton.edu/perl/webwn

  • Foolproof as it appears is not tolerate to failure or in simpler manner, a none-failure or in the simplest form of words would be; PERFECT.

    Perfection. I'm not going to talk about any computer system or procedure or regulation (well, when talking about foolproof, it's always about system) but about belief system.

    There are no foolproof belief system as there are none of things in this world near to perfection. Friend of mine having internal fight with himself for stop himself from cross the boundary. She belongs to someone and he is single. They are friend and the assurance that the belief system of her is foolproof is total bullshit. I believe that she could be loyal but whether the loyalty could be really hold still if he keep on going, I'm very much doubt that.

    i couldn't shake off the fact that he and she will ended up together. We talk about this and he pretty much don't like the idea of it. He believe in her belief system to be foolproof but things with emotion is hard to predict.

    And possibilities of one small appreciative gesture, smile and talk would lead to total change in their life story are the most that i could help him to realize. he realize that but the dejavu of past experience haunt him. She really resembled the one he likes before. She is completely mirror image of his past. He couldn't shake her off of his mind but reality bites hard.

    He's asking for consultation and i only provide the blunt truth. I won't hide as i know where this could bring him. It's not a hard decision to be cold to her but to eventually do that is hard. Who's in the right mind willing to let the best of things?

    He in dilemma. Should he go on with fragile foolproof belief system of her by hoping nothing eventually happened or should he let her go by keeping his distance.

    He knows the answer best. Break a leg, bro.

    4 comments:

    Anonymous said...

    Gah!

    The borderline has been crossed already.

    1) He befriended with woman who's in a relationship - BUT, he choose one who looks like his crush previously. That makes his friendship questionable. So, borderline crossed.

    2) He believe in a woman. That's a cross. Never believe in a woman especially her belief system.

    I gotta agree with you. Break his leg so that he can keep his distance, shall you? :P

    p/s: oh and i meant that in non-literally :P

    dueng said...

    hahaha. exactly what i had been thinking of. it's like sengaja carik pasal kan?

    hahaha. i wish i could do that. but he has his freedoom of choice and freewill. he need to decide it by himself.

    i wish i could break his leg literally. :P

    Soraya Zainal said...

    " Never believe in a woman especially her belief system. "

    Now, in my case, I just need to reverse the gender :P

    Btw mangi, do break his leg. Literally or not.. because if you let him go on and on... the later heart ache will be harder to cure than the physical pain he will endure, if you literally break his leg la kan :P

    p/s: Just make sure there will be no police report lodged.

    dueng said...

    soraya: hahaha. i'll let you and adek arguing about that. i think it's more bout imperfect hence humane.

    hahaha. he has the freewill to make the right choice. sometimes, the painful experience taught him well.

    *finger cross*

    hahaha. if i need to do so, i will make sure he not able to lodge any police report. :P